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Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Gingivostomatitis

Last week Mika kene gingivostomatitis. Seminggu la melepak kat rumah dengan mummy sebab being a responsible mom, aku tanak le bdk lain kat school dia berjangkit pulak kan. First time aku tau pasal virus nih..

al-kisahnya, last Sunday daddy tolong berus gigi Mika tapi tetiba ada darah. Bila check, nampak la seketul ulcer kat tepi lidah dia. So kami assume berdarah sebab ulcer tu lah.. Then malam isnin tu, aku beruskan gigi dia macam biasa. Kali ni berdarah lagi banyak on the other side pulak. Pastu bukan kat satu tempat je pulak tu.. sepanjang-panjang 3-4 gigi tu berdarah-darah gusi. Terus aku cuak. Mika pulak dok cakap sakit-sakit.

Lepas tu terus la aku dok google pasal bleeding gums during brushing. Baca punya baca, banyak yg cakap serious medical condition macam Leukemia. Tak ke tersentap kat situ. Aku pun belek-belek mulut hero tu, tengok ada ulcer seketul lagi kat belah pipi, then kat gusi dia pun macam ada ulcer dengan benda-benda putih. So aku google lagi pasal bleeding gums in toddler. Jumpalah discussion pasal gingivitis nih. Baca discussion ni baru la hati ni lega sikit.

Tapi hati still resah, tatau nak bawak jumpa paed or dentist sebab gingivitis ni sejenis gum disease kan. Aku memang dah berkira-kira nak bawak Mika jumpa dentist dr bulan lepas tapinya asyik bertangguh. Menyesal pulak rasanya. So aku terus le membaca, pastu baru confident sikit. Last-last decide pegi jumpa paed dulu.

The next day, doctor sahkan symptom Mika. Dia kasi antibiotik and ulcer spray. Rata-rata yang aku baca cakap sepatutnya doc prescribe anti-viral med instead of antibiotik. Tapi knowing doc-doc kat mesia ni.. haih aku redho je lah sumbat antibiotik kat Mika. Nak cari paed lain macam aih seksanya. Doc ni nampak ok, dia check bebetul and pandai melayan budak and bagi penerangan clearly. Cukup la tu.

Dari yang aku baca, gingivostomatitis ni boleh disebabkan oleh coxsackie, culprit tuk HFMD. Time kene HFMD aritu, Mika takde pun ulcer bagai cuma merah-merah kat tangan and kaki sikit. Tapi kali ni doc detect banyak ulcer dalam mulut dia, kat anak tekak segala. Atas bibir pun ada ulcer. No wonder la susu pun tak abis.. kesian Mika, dah la kurus. Makin kurus la lepas nih.

Last Friday, aku start balik berus gigi dia. Still berdarah sikit although makan semua dah ok. Now dah ok, aku pun dah anto dia pergi sekolah. hahah tapi drama la sikit budak tu sebab seronok 4 hari ponteng sekolah. marah teacher datang ambik dia kat kereta, nak suruh aku dukung sampai depan pintu jugak! nasib takde drama air mata macam 2 weeks ago.

kalau anak korang terkene juga camni, jangan la panik. High chances it's gingivostomatitis. tapi do go and consult your doctor~

For more info:
Gingivostomatitis on babycenter
Gingivostomatitis on MedlinePlus

p/s: kalau nak tengok cemana, g le google.. tak rela aku nak tempek kat sini sebab banyak gambar yg teruk-teruk je kat google tu. alhamdulillah Mika punya takde lah seteruk tu.

Friday, October 18, 2013

Breastfeeding Week: Susu ibu cair sebab susu tak berkualiti?

Pernah dengar orang cakap susu ibu cair sebab susu tak berkualiti? Susu tak berkualiti nanti baby minum tak kenyang or tak membesar or membulat macam baby lain katanya.

 

Susu yang cair ni sebenarnya foremilk, susu yang terkumpul di depan dan yang mula-mula keluar setiap kali baby menyusu. Susu ni rendah kandungan lemaknya, tapi kaya dengan carbohydrate, proteinn dan vitamins.

Susu yang pekat pulak hindmilk, susu yang terkumpul paling belakang dan kaya dengan kandungan lemak.

Macam mana foremilk boleh terhasil?

When the milk is produced it passes the alveoli (milk producing cells). Most of the fat in the milk then sticks on the back side of these, resulting in hind milk and the rest of the milk collects in the front of the alveoli. (less fatty foremilk)
So the fat actually just becomes stuck further back in the breast's alveoli, and this is what causes the large difference between the milk in the beginning of a feed and the milk at the end. The fat content in the milk increases gradually during a feed as the fat globules are released from the alveoli.
The longer Mom waits between feedings, the more foremilk is allowed to collect and the longer it will take before baby receives the hind milk.
The high lactose level found in the foremilk is important for energy and brain development and also quenches baby’s thirst. The hind milk is important for growth and helps baby feel full. [Source]

Kesimpulannya, salah statement kat atas tu. Susu cair bukan sebab susu tak berkhasiat, tapi aku tengok ramai je penjual-penjual luar sana yang gunakan statement ni as marketing strategy diaorang untuk tarik pelanggan. Don't get me wrong, aku tak marah korang nak berjual tapi janganlah spread the wrong fact yang membuatkan orang fikir breastfeeding ni macam susah and leceh benar.

Kepada ibu-ibu dan bakal ibu, rajin-rajinkan lah diri membaca. Tak rugi menambah ilmu, sekurang-kurangnya korang boleh buat informed decision instead of buta-buta percaya cakap orang, tapi nanti last-last stress and sakit hati sebab tak menjadi.

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Breastfeeding Week: Common breastfeeding myths

In line with this celebration, let me share some of the common myths on breastfeeding from the book i got from TBAN (Embracing Families, Gift of Love 2013. Written by Dr. Jack Newman).

Many women do not produce enough milk.
Fact: The vast majority of women produce more than enough milk. Indeed, an overabundance of milk is common. Most babies that gain too slowly or lose weight, do so not because the mother does not have enough milk, but because the baby does not get the milk that the mother has. The usual reason is due to poor latching.

It is normal for breastfeeding to hurt.
Fact: Though some tenderness during the first few days is relatively common, this should be a temporary situation which lasts only a few days and should never be so bad that the mother dreads nursing. Any pain that is more than mild is abnormal and is almost always due to the baby latching on poorly.

A breastfeeding baby needs extra water in hot weather.
Fact: Breastmilk contains all the water a baby needs.

Breastmilk does not contain enough iron for the baby's needs.
Fact: Breastmilk contains just enough iron for the baby's needs. If the baby is full term, he will get enough iron from breastmilk to last him at least the first 6 months. Formulas contain too much iron, but this quantity may be necessary to ensure the baby absorbs enough to prevent iron deficiency. The iron in formula is poorly absorbed, and most of it, the baby poops out. Generally, there is no need to add other foods to breastmilk before about 6 months of age.

Women with small breasts produce less milk than those with large breasts.
Fact: Nonsense!

Modern formulas are almost the same as breast-milk.
Fact: The same claim was made in 1900 and before. Modern formulas are only superficially similar to breastmilk. Every correction of a deficiency in formulas is advertised as and advance. Fundamentally formulast are inexact copies based on outdated and incomplete knowledge of what breastmilk is. Formula contain no antibodies, no living cells, no enzymes, no hormones. They contain much more aluminum, manganese, cadmium and iron than breastmilk.They contain significantly more protein than breastmilk. The proteins and fats are fundamentally different from those in breastmilk. Formulas do no vary from the beginning of the feed to the end of the feed, or from day 1 to day 30, or from woman to woman, or from baby to baby. Your breastmilk is made as required to suit your baby. Formulas succeed only at making babies grow well, usually, but there is more to breastfeeding than getting the baby to grow quickly.

If the mother has an infection she should stop breastfeeding.
Fact: With very, very few exceptions, the mother's continuing to breastfeed will protect the baby. By the time the mother has fever (or cough, vomiting, diarrhea, rash, etc) she has already given the baby the infection, since she has been infectious for several days before she even knew she was sick. The baby's best protection against getting the infection is for the mother to continue breastfeeding. If the baby does get sick, he will be less sick if the mother continues breastfeeding. Breast infections, including breast abscess, though painful, are not reasons to stop breastfeeding. Indeed, the infection is likely to settle more quickly if the mother continues breastfeeding on the affected side.

If the baby has diarrhea or vomiting, the mother should stop breastfeeding.
Fact: The best medicine for a baby's gut infection is breastfeeding. Stop other foods for a short time, but continue breastfeeding. Breastmilk is the only fluid your baby requires when he has diarrhea and/or vomiting, except under exceptional circumstances. If lactose intolerance is a problem, the baby can receive lactase drops, available without prescription, just before or after feeding, but this is rarely necessary in breastfeeding babies. Get information on its use from the clinic. Lactose free formula is not better than breastfeeding.

A breastfeeding mother has to be obsessive about what she eats.
Fact: A breastfeeding mother should try to eat a balanced diet, but neither needs to eat any special foods nor avoid certain foods. A breastfeeding mother does not need to drink milk in order to make milk. A breastfeeding mother does not need to avoid spicy foods, garlic, cabbage or alcohol. A breastfeeding mother should eat a normal healthful diet. Although there are situations when something the mother eats may affect the baby.

A breastfeeding mother has to drink lots of fluids.
Fact: The mother should drink according to her thirst. Some mothers feel they are thirsty all the time, but many others do not drink more than usual. The mother's body knows if she needs more fluids, and tells her by making her feel thirsty. Do not believer that you have to drink at least a certain number of glasses a day.

A breastfeeding mother has to eat more in order to make enough milk.
Fact: Women on even very low calorie diets usually make enough milk, at least until the mother's calorie intake becomes critically low for a prolonged period of time. Generally, the baby will get what he needs. Some women worry that if they eat poorly for a few days will affect their milk. Such variations will not affect milk supply or quality. It is commonly said that women need to eat 500 extra calories a day in order to breastfeed. This is not true. Some women do eat more when they breastfeed, but others do not, and some even eat  less,without any harm done to the mother or baby or milk supply.

Breastfeeding does not provide any protection against becoming pregnant.
Fact: It is not a foolproof method, but no method is. In fact, breastfeeding is not a bad method of child spacing, and gives reliable protection especially during the first 6 months after birth. It is almost as good as the pill if the baby is under 6 months of age, if breastfeeding is exclusive, and if the mother has not yet had a normal menstrual period after giving birth. After the first six months, the protection is less, but still present, and on average, women breastfeeding into the second year of life will have a baby every 2 to 3 years even without any artificial method of contraception.

The best way to protect against another pregnancy is to breastfeed exclusively at least every four hours around the clock, without using any supplements or pacifiers. Doing so can be a very effective method of birth control, as effective as using birth control pills.[Source]

There is no such thing as nipple confusion.
Fact: A baby who is only bottle fed for the first two weeks of life, for example, will usually refuse to take the breast, even if the mother has an abundant supply. A baby who has had only the breast for 3 or 4 months is unlikely to take the bottle. Some babies prefer the right or left breast to the other. Bottle-fed babies often prefer one artificial nipple to another. So there is such a thing as preferring one nipple to another. The only question is how quickly it can occur. Given the right set of circumstances, the preference can occur after one or two bottles. The baby having difficulties latching on may never have had an artificial nipple, but the introduction of an artificial nipple rarely improves the situation, and often makes it much worse. Note that many who say there is no such thing as nipple confusion also advise the mother to start a bottle early so that the baby will not refuse it.

Women with flat or inverted nipples cannot breastfeed.
Fact: Babies do not breastfeed on nipples, they breastfeed on the breast. Though it may be easier for a baby to latch on to a breast with a prominent nipple, it is not necessary for nipples to stick out. A proper start will usually prevent problems and mothers with any shaped nipples can breastfeed perfectly adequately. In the past, a nipple shield was frequently suggested to get the baby to take the breast. This gadget should not be used, especially in the first few days. Though it may seem a solution, its use often result in poor feeding and severe weight loss, and makes it even more difficult to get the baby to take the breast. If the baby does not take the breast at first, with proper help, he will often take the breast later. Breast also change in the first few weeks, and as long as the mother maintains a good milk supply, the baby will usually latch on, sooner or later.

A woman who becomes pregnant must stop breastfeeding.
Fact: If the mother and child desire, breastfeeding can continue. There are women who continue nursing the older child even after delivery of the new baby. Many mother do decide to stop nursing when they become pregnant because their nipples are sore, or for other reasons, but there is no rush nor medical necessity to do so. In fact, there are often good reasons to continue. The milk supply may decrease during pregnancy, but if the baby is taking other foods, this is not a problem.

Breastfeeding a child until 3 or 4 years of age is abnormal and bad for the child, causing an overdependent relationship between mother and child.
Fact: Breastfeeding for 2-4 years was the rule in most cultures since the beginning of human time on this planet. Only in the last 100 years of so has breastfeeding been seen as something to be limited. Children nursed into the third year are not overly dependent. On the contrary, they tend to be very secure and thus more independent. They themselves will make the step to stop breastfeeding (with gentle encouragement from the mother), and thus will be secure in their accomplishment.

If the baby is off the breast for a few days (weeks), the mother should not restart breastfeeding because the milk sours.
Fact: The milk is as good as it ever was.


Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Breastfeeding week: Breastmilk vs Formula






[Pic Source] I just love the comparison made in the picture above. Do click on the link provided to read on one interesting article on formula companies advertising deception.

Friday, March 22, 2013

Hand, Foot and Mouth Disease (HFMD)

Since Mika terkena HFMD last week, rajin lah aku membaca pasal HFMD ni sebab nak tau lebih banyak pasal penyakit ni.. dan seperti biasa, dalam panik-panik aku bila tau Mika sakit, first thing first haruslah aku tanya en google before jumpa doktor.. bukan apa, kalau dah tau sikit-sikit pasal ni, boleh la bersoal jawab dengan doktor dengan lebih lanjut.. and based on my experience selama ada Mika nih, doktor-doktor kat Malaysia ni senang sangat nak prescribe ubat-ubat yang tak perlu pun sebenarnya..

jom aku share apa yang aku tau~

- sejenis penyakit berjangkit sederhana yang disebabkan oleh virus coxsakie.
- paling senang berjangkit ke atas kanak-kanak berusia 10 tahun ke bawah
- sangat mudah berjangkit
- jangkitan melalui direct contact dengan air liur, mucus or poo poo
- takde ubat untuk disease nih.. doctor might prescribe paracetamol untuk kurangkan sakit
- tak perlu antibiotik sebab penyakit ni disebabkan virus bukan bakteria..! aku sapu calamine lotion je nak kurangkan gatal..
- once dah terkena, tak semestinya tak kene lagi.. just like flu, kanak-kanak boleh terkena jangkitan hfmd ni berkali-kali sebab virus nya ada banyak jenis

telltale sign
- sakit tekak
- fever
- develop rashes with blister in their hands, foot and mouth

kalau anak korang terkene HFMD, kene quarantine sampai betul-betul sihat.. boleh kasi pcm to reduce the pain or teething gel.. make sure they get enough fluid to avoid dehydration.. 


smlm aku siap dapat call from org dari klinik kesihatan asking me about mika's condition.. org tu tengah visit nursery mika pasal HFMD breakout aritu.. dia nak ensure nursery to free from virus ke apa aku lupa nak tanya pulak. lepas tu siap bagitau yang virus ni normally still exist dlm usus diaorang for 29 days.. so for these 29 days dia still boleh spread the virus to others through his poopoo.. so sesiapa yang bersihkan berak dia kene basuh tangan with antiseptic wash.. 

p/s: as expected, doktor alam medic tu prescribe antibiotik.. yang telah ku campak dalam tong sampah.. alhamdulillah Mika dah semakin pulih.. most of the blister pun dah mula hilang~

Friday, October 19, 2012

Sharing is caring : Rotavirus

Just nak share dengan mommies semua pasal vaksin tuk Rotavirus ni.. decision nak amik ke tak terletak di tangan mommies semua.. at least kita tau so that we will make an informed decision. jangan menonong je ikut apa kata orang/doctor tanpa research lengkap~

Boleh baca pasal vaksin ni from Wikipedia - Rotavirus vaccine

Hukum Penggunaan Vaksin Biothrax Dan Vaksin Rotateq Yang Menggunakan Unsur Babi Dalam Proses Penghasilannya


mikaman saya tak amik vaksin ni.. not recommended by his paed aritu.. and since aku dah baca pasal ni before jumpa paed, aku gembira je ikut cakap tuan doc~!

p/s: tiba-tiba cerita pasal rotavirus kan.. sebab i came across this link.. at least lepas ni kalau ada orang tanya senang nak cari balik link nih~!

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

BF Diary: Bayi Susu Ibu

Sharing is caring~!


p/s: tinggi IQ?? amin~! too bz with mamypoko earn your stripes challenge~! Mika pun kadang-kadang terpaksa mengadap laptop muahahaha

Friday, December 16, 2011

Baby Language!


This is something worth sharing.. for the parents and parent-to-be out there, hope this is helpful!! I've tested below language on my boy and it works like 50% of the time, maybe because Mika read the wrong book while he's in my womb! haih~


p/s: kadang-kadang he combines a few words in one sentence.. cam eh eh eh.. nehhhhh nehhhh ngekk ngekk.. apa la budak nih... so tatau la yang mana satu dia nak kan..

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Ganjaran menyusukan anak~!

Saja nak share information kat bawah ni.. since ramai kawan-kawan yang tengah tunggu masa jek kan.. jom kita usaha ke arah exclusive BF.. banyak ganjarannya, insyaAllah~

WANITA YG MEMBERI minum susu kpd anaknya dari susu badannya akan dpt satu pahala dari tiap-tiap titik susu yg diberikannya...JIKA WANITA MEMBERI SUSU BADANNYA kpd anaknya yg menangis,Allah akan memberi pahala satu tahun solat dan puasa...JIKA WANITA MENYUSUI anaknya sampai cukup tempoh (2 1/2 tahun),maka malaikat malaikat di langit akan khabarkan berita bahawa syurga wajib baginya...WANITA YG TIDAK CUKUP TIDUR pada malam hari krn menjaga anak yang sakit akan diampunkan oleh Allah akan seluruh dosanya,dan bila dia hiburkan hati anaknya,Allah memberi 12 tahun pahala ibadat

Source: My baby store

p/s: bercita-cita tinggi nak fully BF neh.. semoga dipermudahkan.. amin~

Friday, August 12, 2011

Selamatkah Air Kosong Pada Bayi

Jom nak share ilmu lagi.. this is for all the new mommy-to-be out there~~

pic source: google
Ibu bapa tidak digalakkan memberi bayi berumur enam bulan ke bawah minum banyak air.

MINUM air yang terlalu banyak boleh menyebabkan kehilangan elektrolit yang diperlukan tubuh.

PAKAR perubatan di Pusat Kanak-kanak Johns Hopkins di Baltimore, Amerika Syarikat, mengingatkan ibu bapa bahawa memberi bayi mereka yang berumur enam bulan ke bawah minum terlalu banyak air boleh membawa kemudaratan yang meragut nyawa.

"Walaupun mereka masih kecil, mereka juga mempunyai refleks untuk berasa dahaga. Dan apabila mereka dahaga, mereka sepatutnya diberi minum susu badan atau susu formula, bukannya air kosong," kata pakar kecemasan pediatrik di pusat itu, Dr. Jennifer Anders.

Ini kerana buah pinggang bayi masih belum matang. Memberi mereka minum terlalu banyak air akan menyebabkan tubuh mereka membebaskan sodium bersama-sama air yang berlebihan.

Kehilangan sodium boleh memberi kesan kepada aktiviti otak. Petanda awal berlakunya keracunan air ialah mudah meradang, pening kepala dan perubahan mental yang lain. Simptom lain termasuklah suhu badan yang rendah, muka sembap dan membengkak serta sawan.

Menurut Anders, simptom yang ditunjukkan kurang jelas, jadi sawan mungkin merupakan simptom pertama yang dapat dikenal pasti oleh ibu bapa.

ELAKKAN daripada memberi susu yang terlalu cair kepada bayi.

Tetapi jika bayi mendapat perhatian perubatan awal, sawan berkenaan mungkin tidak akan meninggalkan kesan yang berpanjangan.

Air tidak sepatutnya diberi sebagai minuman kepada bayi yang berumur enam bulan ke bawah. Ibu bapa juga seharusnya mengelak daripada memberikan susu formula yang terlalu cair atau minuman pediatrik yang mengandungi elektrolit.

Konsultan laktasi Toronto, Kanada, Anne Kirkham, menjelaskan, "Memberi bayi anda air boleh mengakibatkan perkara yang tidak diingini berlaku menyebabkan kehilangan perkara-perkara yang baik."

Contohnya, pengambilan air pada hari pertama selepas kelahiran didapati meningkatkan demam kuning.

"Tidak ramai bayi yang menyusu badan berdepan dengan masalah demam kuning. Tetapi bayi yang diberikan air sebaliknya mengalami simptom demam kuning lebih teruk. Mereka juga lebih mengantuk dan cepat penat," kata Kirkham.

Memberi air pada minggu-minggu awal juga akan memberi kesan kepada menyusu badan. Bayi yang kenyang dengan air akan minum kurang susu semasa menyusu badan dan akibatnya payu dara ibu akan mengeluarkan susu yang kurang.

Dengan itu, bayi akan mendapat susu yang kurang dan pertumbuhan tubuh yang tidak positif.

Sebuah kajian di Australia mendapati bayi baru lahir yang diberikan air yang mengandungi gula selepas setiap kali disusui kehilangan lebih banyak berat badan berbanding bayi yang minum susu ibu semata-mata.

Sumber article : Kosmo! 26 Mei 2008

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Kesilapan Kerap Muslim di Ramadhan~

Knowledge sharing sempena bulan puasa~~ 


1) Makan dan minum dengan bebas setelah batal puasa dengan sengaja (bukan kerana uzur yang diterima Islam). Perlu diketahui bahawa sesiapa yang batal puasanya dengan sengaja tanpa uzur seperti mengeluarkan mani secara sengaja, merokok, makan dan minum. Ia dilarang untuk makan dan minum lagi atau melakukan apa jua perkara yang membatalkan puasa yang lain sepanjang hari itu. (Fiqh as-Siyam, Al-Qaradawi, hlm 112).
Ia dikira denda yang pertama baginya selain kewajiban menggantikannya kemudiannya. Keadaan ini disebut di dalam sebuah hadith, Ertinya : "sesungguhnya sesiapa yang telah makan (batal puasa) hendaklah ia berpuasa baki waktu harinya itu" (Riwayat al-Bukhari)

 
2) Makan sahur di waktu tengah malam kerana malas bangun di akhir malam. Jelasnya, individu yang melakukan amalan ini terhalang dari mendapat keberkatan dan kelebihan yang ditawarkan oleh Nabi SAW malah bercanggah dengan sunnah baginda. "Sahur" itu sendiri dari sudut bahasanya adalah waktu terakhir di hujung malam. Para Ulama pula menyebut waktunya adalah 1/6 terakhir malam. (Awnul Ma'bud, 6/469). Imam Ibn Hajar menegaskan melewatkan sahur adalah lebih mampu mencapai objektif yang diletakkan oleh Nabi SAW. (Fath al-Bari, 4/138)

 
3) Bersahur dengan hanya makan & minum sahaja tanpa ibadah lain. Ini satu lagi kesilapan umat Islam kini, waktu tersebut pada hakikatnya adalah antara waktu terbaik untuk beristigfar dan menunaikan solat malam.
Firman Allah ketika memuji orang mukmin ertinya : " dan ketika waktu-waktu bersahur itu mereka meminta ampun dan beristighfar" (Az-Zariyyat : 18)

يا رسول الله , أي الدعاء أسمع ؟ : قال : جوف الليل الأخير ودبر الصلوات المكتوبة

Ertinya : "Ditanya kepada Nabi (oleh seorang sahabat) : Wahai Rasulullah :" Waktu bilakah doa paling didengari (oleh Allah s.w.t) ; jawab Nabi : Pada hujung malam (waktu sahur) dan selepas solat fardhu" ( Riwayat At-Tirmidzi, no 3494 , Tirmidzi & Al-Qaradhawi : Hadis Hasan ; Lihat Al-Muntaqa , 1/477)

 
4) Tidak menunaikan solat ketika berpuasa. Ia adalah satu kesilapan yang maha besar. Memang benar, solat bukanlah syarat sah puasa. Tetapi ia adalah rukun Islam yang menjadi tonggak kepada keislaman sesorang. Justeru, ‘ponteng' solat dengan sengaja akan menyebabkan pahala puasa seseorang itu menjadi ‘kurus kering' pastinya.

 
5) Tidak mengutamakan solat Subuh berjemaah sebagaimana Terawih. Ini jelas suatu kelompongan yang ada dalam masyarakat tatakala berpuasa. Ramai yang lupa dan tidak mengetahui kelebihan besar semua solat fardhu berbanding solat sunat, teruatamnya solat subuh berjemaah yang disebutkan oleh Nabi SAW bagi orang yang mendirikannya secara berjemaah, maka beroleh pahala menghidupkan seluruh malam.

 
6) Menunaikan solat terawih di masjid dengan niat inginkan meriah. Malanglah mereka kerana setiap amalan di kira dengan niat, jika niat utama seseorang itu ( samada lelaki atau wanita) hadir ke masjid adalah untuk meriah dan bukannya atas dasar keimanan dan mengharap ganjaran redha Allah sebagaimana yang ditetapkan oleh Nabi SAW di dalam hadith riwayat al-Bukhari. Maka, "Sesungguhnya sesuatu amalan itu dikira dengan niat". (Riwayat al-Bukhari)

 
7) Bermalasan dan tidak produktif dalam kerja-kerja di siang hari dengan alasan berpuasa. Sedangkan, kerja yang kita lakukan di pejabat dengan niat ibadat pastinya menambahkan lagi pahala. Justeru, umat Islam sewajarnya memperaktifkan produktiviti mereka dan bukan mengurangkannya di Ramadhan ini.

 
8) Memperbanyakkan tidur di siang hari dengan alasan ia adalah ibadat. Sedangkan Imam As-Sayuti menegaskan bahawa hadith yang menyebut berkenaan tidur orang berpuasa itu ibadat adalah amat lemah. (al-Jami' as-Soghir ; Faidhul Qadir, Al-Munawi, 6/291)

 
9) Menganggap waktu imsak sebagai ‘lampu merah' bagi sahur. Ini adalah kerana waktu imsak sebenarnya tidak lain hanyalah ‘lampu amaran oren' yang di cadangkan oleh beberapa ulama demi mengingatkan bahawa waktu sahur sudah hampir tamat. Ia bukanlah waktu tamat untuk makan sahur, tetapi waktu amaran sahaja. Lalu, janganlah ada yang memberi alasan lewat bangun dan sudah masuk imsak lalu tidak dapat berpuasa pada hari itu. Waktu yang disepakti ulama merupakan waktu penamat sahur adalah sejurus masuk fajar sadiq (subuh). (As-Siyam, Dr Md ‘Uqlah, hlm 278)

 
10) Wanita berterawih beramai-ramai di masjid tanpa menjaga aurat. Ini nyata apabila ramai antara wanita walaupun siap bertelekung ke masjid, malangnya kaki dan aurat mereka kerap terdedah da didedahkan berjalan dan naik tangga masjid di hadapan jemaah lelaki. Tatkala itu, fadhilat mereka solat di rumah adalah lebih tinggi dari mendatangkan fitnah buat lelaki ketika di masjid.

 
11) Memasuki Ramadhan dalam keadaan harta masih dipenuhi dengan harta haram, samada terlibat dengan pinjaman rumah, kad kredit, insuran, pelaburan dan kereta secara riba. Ini sudah tentu akan memberi kesan yang amat nyata kepada kualiti ibadah di bulan Ramadhan, kerana status orang terlibat dengan riba adalah sama dengan berperang dengan Allah dan RasulNya, tanpa azam dan usaha untuk mengubahnya dengan segera di bulan 'tanpa Syaitan' ini, bakal menyaksikan potensi besar untuk gagal terus untuk kembali ke pangkal jalan di bulan lain.
Nabi Muhammad menceritakan :-

ذَكَرَ الرَّجُلَ يُطِيلُ السَّفَرَ أَشْعَثَ أَغْبَرَ يَمُدُّ يَدَيْهِ إلى السَّمَاءِ يا رَبِّ يا رَبِّ وَمَطْعَمُهُ حَرَامٌ وَمَشْرَبُهُ حَرَامٌ وَمَلْبَسُهُ حَرَامٌ وَغُذِيَ بِالْحَرَامِ فَأَنَّى يُسْتَجَابُ لِذَلِكَ

Ertinya :  menyebut tentang seorang pemuda yang bermusafir dalam perjalanan yang jauh, hal rambutnya kusut masai, mukanya berdebu di mana dia mengangkat tangan ke langit : Wahai Tuhanku...wahai Tuhanku... sedangkan makanannya haram, minumannya haram dan pakaiannya haram..Dan dia dibesarkan dengan memakan makanan haram maka bagaimana Kami mahu mengabulkan doanya. ( Riwayat Muslim, no 1015, 2/703 ; hadis sohih)
Justeru, bagaimana Allah mahu memakbulkan doa orang yang berpuasa sedangkan keretanya haram, rumahnya haram, kad kreditnya haram, insurannya haram, simpanan banknya haram, pendapatannya haram?. Benar, kita perlu bersangka baik dengan Allah, tetapi sangka baik tanpa meloloskan diri dari riba yang haram adalah penipuan kata Imam Hasan Al-Basri.

 
12) Tidak memperbanyakkan doa tatkala berpuasa dan berbuka. Ini satu lagi jenis kerugian yang kerap dilakukan oleh umat Islam. Nabi SAW telah menyebut :-

ثلاثة لا ترد دعوتهم , الإمام العادل , والصائم حتى يفطر ودعوة المظلوم

Ertinya : "Tiga golongan yang tidak di tolak doa mereka, pemimpin yang adil, individu berpuasa sehingga berbuka dan doa orang yang di zalimi" ( Riwayat At-Tirmizi, 3595, Hasan menurut Tirmizi. Ahmad Syakir : Sohih )
Selain itu, doa menjadi bertambah maqbul tatkala ingin berbuka berdasarkan hadith.

إن للصائم عند فطره دعوة لا ترد

Ertinya : "Sesungguhnya bagi orang berpuasa itu ketika berbuka (atau hampir berbuka) doa yang tidak akan ditolak" ( Riwayat Ibn Majah, no 1753, Al-Busairi : Sanadnya sohih) 


Hasil penulisan: Ustaz Zaharuddin Abd Rahman

p/s: semua point-point kat atas insyaAllah boleh diperbaiki, tapi no 11 tu cemana la pulak?? sah2 aku ada loan kereta and aku guna credit card~ insurance lagi.. hermmmmmm.. 

Sunday, February 27, 2011

AirAsia Mobile Check-In

Dah lama gila tak naik AA nih.. The last AA flight I boarded was in 2009, a month after I got married.. Time tu counter check-in still free!! Sekarang semua nak kene bayar!! Esok lusa nak pakai toilet dalam flight pun dorang charge gamaknye~~
Since everything was done last minute for this trip, tak sempat nak buat web check in.. Nak buat from home, takde printer plak.. Nasib la AA provide mobile check-in!! Very the advance!! Since I've installed AA apps on my mobile kan, senang cerita! Zap zap zap!! As easy as a b c~ Everything is ready within 5 minutes!! woott woootttt
AA apps on IP

Once you select mobile check in, you need to put in the booking number along with the location of your departure

Select the guest that you want to check in (up to 9 guests at one time)

Then keluar la security disclaimer on prohibited item.

Just Click "Yes"

You then have to enter your mobile number with the country code and your email address.

Once done, you'll get a text message with the link to your 2D barcode..

This is how the barcode looks like.

Then you just have to go to the airport, scan the barcode that you received earlier and you'll get your boarding pass!!
Just look for this scanning machine. In LCCT, this machine is located opposite to the web check-in kiosk.

Tada!!! Easy peasy~~

p/s: unfortunately you cannot find this machine in all country, so far you can do this in Malaysia and UK~ lain-lain wa tatau cause tak buat research lagi..

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Rahsia Hari Wanita Dilahirkan!!

Jom tengok rahsia hari aku lahir!

Sabtu - Kuat cemburu, suka kebendaan, tak gemar dengan anak-anak, suka bertikam lidah. Namun dia tegas pendirian, cerdas pemikiran, teliti dalam banyak hal. Tidak pernah berasa puas, suka berkorban apa saja demi mencapai cita-cita. Apabila bercinta, suka menyelidik latarbelakang pasangan dan suka menguji. Pandai berjimat dan sentiasa berfikir untuk masa depan. Wanita ini akur dan mengikut perintah suami. Seksualnya agak dingin, tetapi apabila bermula, seksnya kuat dan tahan lama, tidak tergesa2 dan dilakukan dengan kelembutan.
Saja highlight purple khas untuk sang suami!

Rahsia Na 
Isnin - Wanita ini bersikap jujur, tidak mudah menggelabah atau panik,berhati-hati, tidak mudah mengalah, pandai menjaga diri dan pergaulan. Ramai teman lelaki dan wanita yang menyukainya. Dia juga mudah memberi pertolongan, cergas, berusaha kuat, teliti dan pandai menguruskan kewangannya. Namun jika marah berapi-api dan menakutkan, jarang mahu mengaku kalah dalam pertengkaran. Dalam percintaan, dia mencurahkan kesetiaan tidak berbelah bagi dan sedia berkorban. Seksualnya kurang membara lainkan pasangannya pandai mencari tempat rangsangannya.

Rahsia Miss Totty
Khamis - Dia suka menyinggung hati orang lain, cakapnya kesat, kemahuan kuat, dan bersikap agresif. Rajin dan tekun bekerja, tak suka diganggu ketika bekerja, bercita-cita tinggi. Boleh terpikat kepada lelaki lain walaupun sudah ada kekasih atau suami. Namun dia tak mudah jatuh cinta, suka menyelidik dahulu sebelum bercinta. Hatinya tidak tetap, mudah terpedaya dengan pujuk rayu sehingga tak kenal antara yg baik dan buruk. Dia pandai mengurus dan merancang kewangan. Pada awal perkahwinan, tunduk pada suami, akan berubah apabila sudah lama berkeluarga. Seksualnya tinggi, jika tak pandai mengawal nafsu boleh terdorong ke lembah hina. 
Note to Adib: Sila berhati-hati!! hahahah ;p 

Teringin nak tahu rahsia hari lahir korang jugak? Jom serbu link nih : Rahsia Hari Wanita Dilahirkan~ 

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Murni Discovery, Aman Suria

Last Friday, since the husband is not around for the gazillion times.. i decided to join my colleague for dinner!! berjimba-jimba sambil berlagak bujang is fun once in a while~~ since i can't stand spending another day watching the tv or surfing the net, i asked hizam if he's free to hang out!! since budak itu adalah socialist yang sangat hebat, dengan pandainye dia pilih Murni Discovery.. Noorul and I has been dying to go to this place sebab budak-budak servicedesk selalu la dok promote2 kesedapan kedai nih!! pucuk dicita, ulam mendatang!!
plan nak keluar pukul 8pm, betul-betul lepas Noorul abis keje.. tetapi sebab berjanji dengan apek itu, harus la delay sejam.. hish janji kul 8, keluar office kul 9!! apa kes?? panas jugak la bontot mak duk menunggu kat rumah, siap dok kira-kira bape banyak kereta lalu depan rumah lagi!!
dalam kul 9.30 baru kak Noorul sampai, then tunggu apek pulak another 20 minutes.. last-last, 10 lebih baru sampai ke Murni Discovery tuh.. perut dah berkriuk-kriuk dah!! si hizam pun tension jek menunggu kat kedai tu.. ngehngehngeh!! sampai jek terus minta menu!! kami macam jakun (read: noorul and myself) bila tengok menu tuk drinks dia.. very the creative one i tell you!! korang nak air apa?? poison, i love you.. semua ada!!! dengan skill manipulative yang ada pada diriku yang kecik molek ni, aku berjaya la suruh dorang order air yang aku nak, boleh?? hasilnya??
dont worry, be happy and i miss you!! this is the secret message i want to send to my dear husband!! cool kan?
for me, among these three.. the best drink is none other than "dont worry" sebab ada asam boi!! my favourite!!
as for food pulak, aku order lamb chop.. sedap!!! sauce dia pun yummy jugak.. aku kasi 3.5 bintang~~ 
gambar ni dicuri from murni discovery fb, uploaded by NurAnisya Shahriman
kak noorul makan mee raja, which is one of their specialty dish. takde la sedap mana aku rasa, tak faham kenapa jadi specialty.. review mee raja pun mostly semua cakap this is one of the best dish~ lain orang lain rasa la gamaknye kan?
gambar ni pulak aku curi kat sini : pic source
Apek pulak order Nasi Lemak Ayam Goreng!! Nampak sedap, tapi aku tak mencuba pun cause i was too buzy enjoying my lamb chop~~
gambar ni pun curi jugak from here
punya la best kan bujang, dok bersembang-sembang sampai pukul 1 lebih baru ingat nak balik! ngehngehngeh, sekali sekala terlepas kene la enjoy!!

p/s: semua gambar curi cause si apek tak pass lagi gambar yang kami amik!! hish apek nih!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Lagi kes pecah rumah

Khamis lepas rumah BIL aku dipecah masuk pencuri.. Up till now swift yang hilang masih tak dijumpai... Ahad pagi, rumah jiran sebelah pula dipecah orang!!!
Apa yang hilang??? Cuma gate and tiang rumah~~~
alkisahnye, pagi ahad tu sang asben terbangun sebab ada bunyi dentuman kat luar.. Sang isteri tengah tdo kroh kroh sebab penat menari di malam sebelumnye.. Disebabkan sang suamu berhasrat nak suprisekan si isteri dengan nasi lemak for breakfast, dia terus ke dapur. Tak jenguk pun keluar.. (sweet kan asben saya?? Walaupun nasi lemak tu dia tapau kat rumah cousin dia jek hahaha)
Anyway, bila dah siap.. Perut dah kembung, baru dia tergerak nk jenguk kat luar. Terkejut giler sebab ada police car park depan rumah... Rupa-rupanye, rumah sebelah kene pecah. Yang uniknya, jiran area rumah ni jugak punya keje..pak cik tua pulak tu!!


Dia pun tukar baju, terus pegi sebelah.. Rupanye, pak cik tu keluar nak pegi beli paper. On the way balik, sampai selekoh depan rumah aku ni.. Dia terlupa kot ada selekoh!!! Dia drive straight je masuk rumah jiran aku. Gate berkunci tu dia redah jek then terus hentam tiang. Lepas tu, pak cik tu keluar keta, grab his newspaper and walk home!! Macam takde apa2.. Nasib no one was hurt.. Hish, tatau la apa penyakit pak cik tu, nyanyuk la kot!!
pagar ni sampai harini tak boleh tutup~
P/s: nasib langgar tiang, kalau tak mau masuk rumah terus pak cik tu!! Bak kata kak manja, boleh dia hidang nasi.. Dugaan betul!!!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Evo 7

Cerita pasal Evo dijumpai boleh dibaca di Harian Metro

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Pecah Rumah!!

Rumah abang ipar aku dipecah masuk last Thursday and the thieves managed to get their hands on his Evo7 and the wife's Swift!! Apart from that, they also took theirs laptop, watches, his wallet and the house keys.. Alhamdulillah no one was hurt!! This happens around 5.30 a.m in the morning. 

Normally, Maya would wake up around that time for her nenen session tapi pagi tu Maya tido lena.. so the only person that was awake at that time was his MIL. Mak dia terdengar bunyi kereta and assume yang abang ipar aku tu keluar pegi kerja awal. Then dia dengar bunyi 2nd car pulak start. Haruslah pelik since no one told her that they are leaving earlier than normal, dengan beraninye mak kak Isma turun nak jenguk through sliding door. Selak-selak langsir, dia nampak sliding door tu terbuka luas and Evo tengah reverse keluar.

Kelam kabut la dia berlari panjat tangga pegi gerak anak dia but it was too late. They call the cops and within 3 minutes polis pun sampai. Rupa-rupanye, ada another house yang kene pecah jugak earlier that morning!! They suspect geng yang sama. In fact, rumah yang a few block away pun pintu dah kene pecah cuma pencuri tu tak sempat nak ambil barang jek!! Polis tu pun make an effort nak mencari, kot-kot boleh jumpa tapi since dah lambat plus nak kejar Evo pulak tu kan.. memang takde harapan la~~

Yang ajaibnye, mamat pencuri tu tak sabar agaknye nak menunjuk yang dia ada Evo.. dia bawak keta tu keluar jalan-jalan dekat Bukit Bintang!! Kebetulan pulak ada sorang geng Evo dia nampak kereta tu and inform geng-geng lain.. so dorang ambush mamat tu dengan polis. Rezeki BIL aku la nak jumpa balik kereta tu although takde harapan nak jumpa swift sebab kereta swift tu standard je... susah sikit orang nak recognize.. Evo dia pulak macam-macam sticker dia tampal so geng-geng dia mesti kenal punya.. 
Evo yang berjaya dicuri dan dijumpai~~
Disebabkan dorang sedap belasah mamat tu, now my BIL hidup dalam ketakutan.. in case geng-geng dia datang cari kat rumah.. lagipun they have the house key!! seram!! In case you are wondering, BIL aku dok kat bukit serdang.. sesiapa yang duk kat sana.. beware!! banyak dah orang jadi mangsa malaun-malaun nih



Kesimpulannya, do not leave you valuable item lying around in your living room!! My BIL letak all his keys, wallet and watches in the drawer near the door. Kalau kene pecah masuk memang senang-senang jek orang nak ambik! 
For those yang ada sliding door, pegi la letak kayu or lock for the sliding door so kalau ada orang nak break in they will have to break the glass. Sah-sah dorang fikir dua kali!! This includes me cause my house have 2 sliding door. I'm living in fear ok, especially when en hubby is not around.. sob sob sob

p/s: tiba-tiba rasa nak spray sport rim kaler kuning.. huhuhu kasi lain dari lain... amacam cun tak??

Friday, November 26, 2010

AirAsia - Charging passenger for counter check in!!

Kawan-kawan travelholic semua... cuba korang tengok link kat bawah ni


http://biz.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2010/11/26/business/20101126082849&sec=business


Cam haram le AA ni.. semua dia nak charge!! ni bukan low cost dah ni... makin mahal la harga ticket nak travel~~


p/s: takut lepas ni orang masuk toilet pun kene charge.. tak pasal nak menahan pulak kan!!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Go Uniqlo!!

the first time i heard of this brand was when i was in the UK.. then honey went to Japan and bought 2 shirts from Uniqlo for me.. Now Uniqlo, Japan's number one fashion brand will be opening its first store in Bukit Bintang!! Woohooo.. The grand opening will be on the 4th November 2010,.. OMG that's today!!

grand opening = sales!!! 
T-shirt collection - RM29.90 (usual price RM59.90)
 jeans - RM49.90 (usual price RM99.90)
women's legging starts from RM9.90


For the first 500 people to queue during the store opening stand a chance to win All-Expense-Paid trip to Tokyo for TWO!!!

too bad i only found out about their "Go Uniqlo" contest yesterday!! the contest ends last nite.. so i only manage to get a RM20 voucher. better than nothing~~ let's shop in uniqlo honey!!




p/s: legging in H&M pun starts from 6.90!! pound la tapi!! 

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

PayBox.me


Jom cerita pasal PayBox pulak!!


Apa sebenarnye PayBox ni?
Paybox adalah website untuk payment processing service. Dorang ni tgh berusaha nak develop company macam Paypal tu. Through PayBox ni, kita boleh transfer duit person-to-person, dan juga boleh berjual beli dalam online store dia. Website ni still under development and testing phase. 


Kenapa aku sebuk nak promote PayBox ni?
Skrg ni Paybox offer $50 untuk sesiapa yang sign up, up to $20 per day bila kita login to the page daily and complete their survey..etc2 and $5 tuk referral. Kiranya, duit2 yang dia kasi tiap2 hari tu as payment sbb kita test system dorg ni..  Sambil menyelam minum air dorang ni sbb earlybirds ni kiranye tolong test and advertise kan website dorang ni.. sangat pandai! According to PayBox, sekarang earlybirds dah mencecah 100k++.


Bila Paybox ni boleh digunakan betul2?
Target dorang ni nak dapatkan 2 to 5 million users dulu baru dia nak open box nih.. 


Kenapa nak tunggu sampai 2 to 5 million user?
Walaupun earlybirds diaorang dah mencecah 100k++, kalau nak compare dengan payment processing service yang lain.. dorang ni still ikan kecik!! so nanti susahlah nak compete dengan company lain2... kalau dah user bermillion2, lagi senanglah dorang ni nak diterima oleh merchant2 yang besar


Betul ke Paybox ni? Ke Spam jek?
Tak kira betul ke tak, yang penting kita mencuba. Lagipun, kita tak perlu buat pe. Just login daily, pastu kalau rajin buat la survey2 dia. Pendek je pun survey dia. Then kalau extra rajin lagi, pergi la main2 transfer duit or berjual beli kat Paybox shop dia. Tak rugi pun mencuba.




Menarik tak? Duit free memang sentiasa menarik!! Berminat??
http://www.paybox.me/r/harlaney